A: No butt is meant for sexual penetration. But back to butts. Using lots of anal lube, slip a finger inside your anus, then two, and then three. This allows the sphincter muscles that surround the anus to relax and get used to the feeling of expansion.
Anal sex: is it safe and what are the health risks?
Anal sex: the potential risks and how to enjoy it safely
More young women than ever—45 percent—are trying anal, according to the latest research from the Kinsey Institute. If you're considering having anal sex for the first time, you're probably wondering how to prepare, relax, and enjoy the intimate moment with your partner. We called in the experts: Rachel Needle , Psy. The last thing you want to be before attempting anal is tense. If this is your first time trying anal sex, spend some time relaxing—take a hot bath, ask your partner to give you a sensual massage, heck, you can even meditate.
The book is amazing not just for its straight-up factual information on practically any aspect of sex you can think of, but also for its easy, nonjudgmental, at-times humorous tone. Here, Joannides talks us through the realities of making anal both as safe and as pleasurable as possible. This seemed shocking at the time. This was pre-Netflix: Everything was on videotape, from porn to Disney movies to highlights from the Olympics.